It is exciting to finally have your first dating with that man you meet on a gay dating app. You are excited because you can meet him face to face and you can also get the chance to know more about him. Starting a new relationship will give you every reason to be happy and satisfied. But some guys may destroy their first gay dating with another man because of things that they talk about on their first meeting. Yes, there are topics that gay men should avoid for the first meeting due to some reasons. If you don’t want to have a terrible first dating, you can keep reading and stay away from those topics below.
1.Ask about his ex or talk about your ex. This topic is absolutely not allowed to talk about for the first meeting with a gay man. Even if you don’t know what to talk about at a very moment, you don’t want to bring up this topic. Maybe you just want to know what kind of person he is interested in or you may want to know what’s the reason why they break up with their exes. No matter what are your reasons to talk about the exes, you will regret this action.
2.Ask about the money either of you can make. Don’t you think it is very awkward to ask about the money that your potential partner can make? Maybe you just don’t know what to ask at that time. So, you just say it without any intentions. But it will absolutely make your partner uncomfortable. He doesn’t want to reveal anything about money to make this dating go bad. And it may even make others think that you want to find a gay sugar daddy or someone who can support your life financially. You meet on a gay hookup app and both of you just want to build a relationship with the one that you love. So, don’t ever mention this topic for the first meeting.
3.Things related to the future. You can ask him about his life plan or career plan. But don’t don’t ask for too much since someone may not think about these things at a very young age. Besides, don’t ask about his future with you. Remember that you just meet for the first time and things are not settled down between you and this man. He never has the chance to think about the future with you. It will only make you seem ridiculous and funny.